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BB64FFC6-619F-4609-94FC-E59C3BFB9F5DWomen who’ve been mishandled in the area of Love will always, always, always hold a special place in my heart.  I know how it feels to be deflated by another person’s unwillingness or inability to see you, value you, appreciate you. I know how humbling it is to put your heart, sweat, and tears on the line.  I know how crushing and humiliating it feels, after all that, to then not be chosen. I know how disheartening it feels not getting what you know you really deserve. I know how it feels to camp out way too long in unfulfilling relationships, falsely believing said person is your only hope.  I know how suffocating it feels to stay when you know it’s time to go. I know what it’s like to sit up in a gloomy, dark room, crying relentlessly, wondering, What’s wrong with me? I know how devastating it feels to see your old guy move on swiftly, and with ease, with someone new, while you’re still struggling, trying to pick your face up off the ground. I know how terrifying it is to think you’ll never be loved again.  I know what it’s like to feel bitter, mean, and miserable, to use friends and family as punching bags. I know how disappointing and disastrous it is to put your life, well being, and good living on hold. To be enraged because you feel short-changed.  To abandon self-care. To hand your power over.

But thank God (insert praise dance here),  I also know how life changing and empowering it feels to snatch your power back! One day I woke up and said, “Enough! I’m done with this.”  I was done being sad, feeling as if I was a complete failure. I was done with falsely believing I needed a guy to sign on the dotted line as proof of my worth and validity.  I was done with allowing a breakup to break me down. I was done waiting to be chosen. Instead, I made a conscious decision to choose myself (and from that day forward to continue choosing myself).  It was time for me to create a new narrative, to design a new life. It was time to start talking differently to and about myself. It was time to smile again. To dance. To chase my joys and dreams. It was time to come back to myself. It was time to live a happy and healthy life.  It was time to turn those sour lemons into a glass of delicious tasting Lavender Lemonade. And then enjoy a sweet, refreshing sip. I deserved that. You deserve that! 

With that said, I am a woman passionate about helping other women realize that despite disappointments, breakups, heartbreaks, or slow-moving Prince Charmings you can (and you absolutely should) still live a BIG, full, exciting, joy-filled, meaningful, ROCKSTAR  life. (Periodt!). In closing, I need you to fully understand 3 things:

  1. Even after heartbreak, life goes on…
  2. You have the power to create a new narrative for yourself…
  3. You’re a BIG deal and living a Rockstar life is your birthright…